![]() Science shows that focusing on a child’s emotional needs is the most effective approach to changing his behavior. Read on to learn why time-outs cause more problems than they solve - and what to do instead: Trust us, it’s easier than you think, and leads to more thoughtful, cooperative kids. What works? Setting limits in a way that’s nurturing and respectful by connecting with and redirecting your kid. But when overused, they can lead to an endless cycle of misunderstandings and frustration. We’re not saying that time-outs are the worst possible discipline technique or that they cause trauma. But after exploring the research, talking to thousands of families, and raising our own kids (five between the two of us), we’ve come to what may seem like a startling conclusion: Time-outs usually don’t work. After all, it’s the top discipline tool in many families - and it sure beats yelling or spanking.Īs parenting experts, we’ve met many loving moms and dads who think this way. But if you’re like many parents, you may also think time-outs are a good way to set clear and consistent boundaries and teach kids self-control. You may not like disciplining your child, especially if you think of it as punishment. “I don’t want waaater!” she wails, and throws the cup at you. “I can give you a cup of water,” you tell her. ![]() You tell her she’s only allowed one cup of juice at dinner - and besides, there’s none left. Does this scenario sound familiar? Your preschooler asks for more grape juice. ![]()
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